my private life

Chapter 30

The running-in period between me and Xiao Yao was shorter than I thought.Maybe it is because I have experienced the combination and separation of the previous few times that I have learned to be patient and tolerant, know how to pretend to be confused in life, and show weakness in front of my lover.When Xiao Yao was upset and irritable, I tried not to argue with her directly.Shut up and do what you should do obediently.In a fit of anger, the two of them might say some harsh words when they quarreled, which would hurt others as well as themselves.Wait for her to calm down, then coax her, and find out the crux of the problem.

And Xiao Yao's fiery temper is also slowly changing, in her own words, "It's so boring to get angry, you don't even quarrel with me."

After she left home in the middle of the night, she got angry later, and she never did anything to make me sad again.

Xiao Yao asked me more than once why I was so kind and tolerant to her. "You are my daughter-in-law, of course I want to spoil you." I really like the feeling of pampering her.Love needs to be released, to someone who is worthy of your love.Xiao Yao is the woman I can't put it down.No matter what kind of shortcomings she has, it can't change my love for her.

Maybe this is the so-called one thing subjugates one thing. I was "surrendered" by Xiao Yao. It can also be said that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and Xiao Yao is the best in my mind.

"I lost my temper at you, but you let me go. Don't you feel wronged?" Xiao Yao was lying on the sofa with her head resting on my lap, and she was using her mobile phone to check some tourist attractions around Shanghai.We are going to travel this Spring Festival.

I reached up to her neck and stroked her chin. "I've never felt wronged. We've been together for three years, don't you feel wronged?"

"No." She grabbed my hand and put it on her lips and kissed, "I'm worried that I'll be spoiled by you, and one day you will finally get annoyed and explode once, ah, that will scare me to death. ’ she shivered exaggeratedly.

I suppressed my laughter, deliberately lowered my voice and pretended to be stern, and said, "I'm going to explode now. Go take a shower, and lie down and wait for me."

"Okay, sister." Xiao Yao really put away her phone obediently, sat up, and stretched out her hands, "You carry me to the bathroom." Compared with three years ago, she understands better that acting like a baby at the right time is love The flavoring agent for the increasingly dull feelings in the world.

I carried Xiao Yao on my back and walked to the bathroom.She wrapped her arms around my neck and whispered in my ear. "Would you like to persuade Auntie again to travel with us?"

In the past three years, my mother's attitude towards Xiao Yao has also changed.Every holiday, Xiao Yao will take the initiative to go to the bun shop to help.Especially last year, when my cousin was married and pregnant, Xiao Yao stayed in the store almost every day.

At first, my mother was lukewarm towards Xiao Yao.Xiao Yao ignored her attitude, took the dishes, washed the dishes and tidied up the table, doing everything very carelessly.

I am worried that Xiao Yao has been wronged. "On Saturdays and Sundays, we can go together. We don't need to run to the store every day. There are not enough people in the store, just hire people."

Xiao Yao felt that although my parents didn't like her, as a junior, she couldn't wait for the old man to take the initiative to show her favor. She should find an opportunity to ease the relationship slowly.

After all, people's hearts are made of flesh.A few days later, my mother was moved by Xiao Yao's diligence. At noon, when I went to the store, she took the initiative to ask Xiao Yao to go to the cashier, "You are also a university teacher after all, how can you do rough work? Go help me." Check out and collect the money." My mother looked at Xiao Yao and then at me after she finished speaking.

Xiao Yao readily agreed.During that time, what she talked to me the most when she came home was what she had seen and heard at the bun shop.My mother is no longer indifferent to her, and sometimes she can chat with her a few words.

I took Xiao Yao home on Sunday, and my mother didn't object.It's just that she never mentioned my relationship with Xiao Yao.I think this is also a default.

Sometimes when Xiao Yao was busy and I went home alone, my mother would ask strangely, "Where is Yaoyao, why didn't I come back with you?"

I didn't expect my family's support and approval for my life, and I was satisfied if they didn't object.

This summer vacation, we accompanied Xiao Yao's parents to go out to Jiuzhaigou.My mother was always a little displeased when she found out, but she didn't express her complaints in front of me.My father secretly told me that my mother was jealous of my harmonious relationship with Xiao Yao's family.

Xiao Yao decided to take my parents to Shanghai during the Spring Festival. "My mother said to go out in summer. They prefer to stay at home during the Spring Festival." I have discussed this matter with my mother several times, and she insisted on traveling in summer.

On the afternoon of New Year's Eve, I unexpectedly ran into Hao Jia at Xiao Yao's house.

Hao Jia met a Taiwanese girl while in the United States, and they fell in love at first sight.The girl was already working in the United States, so Hao Jia stayed.This time she is returning home to visit relatives.

Hao Jia was still very cold when she saw me, and didn't even look at me.She was just talking to Xiao Yao about her experience in the United States, but I found that she did not have the abnormal enthusiasm for her sister Yaoyao three years ago, and was more polite.

No matter what attitude she has towards me, I sincerely wish her to find her own emotional belonging.

On the second day of the Lunar New Year, Xiao Yao and I went to Shanghai.Zhao Danyang knew that we were going on a trip again, and he was not without jealousy. "You two really enjoy it. You travel at least twice a year. When will someone take me there?"

"Hurry up and find a girlfriend. Why don't you sign up for a senior group and let your parents accompany you." Xiao Yao deliberately teased him.

After the love life becomes flat, prevent the days from being as boring as when they were with Liu Qingyan in the past.Xiao Yao and I try our best to make our little days colorful. We go out to eat together on weekend nights, watch movies or sit in coffee shops, and sometimes go to bars with friends.During the winter and summer vacations, I will arrange work, and then ask for a week off, and the two of them will go out for a few days together.

When I was in Shanghai this time, I actually made an unexpected discovery.

That day, Xiao Yao and I were visiting the Temple of the City God.The street was crowded with people, Xiao Yao stopped in front of a snack shop.She is greedy for those Jiangnan snacks. "I want to eat." She let go of my hand and walked in first.

Just when I was about to follow her in, I inadvertently turned my face and glanced aside.I stopped involuntarily, and stared in surprise at a place a few steps ahead, facing a woman and a six or seven-year-old girl standing sideways to me.The woman is of medium build, her hair is tied high in a bun, and she is wearing a skirt.She was lowering her head and talking to the little girl in front of her.

Although she couldn't see the woman's face clearly, the outline of her figure was so familiar.After I was stunned for a moment, I immediately thought, how could Liu Qingyan come to Shanghai.I must be wrong.

The flow of people coming and going ahead blocked the view.I raised my foot and planned to walk away, but the accent of the conversation between the woman and the child surprised me again. I couldn't understand it or understand it clearly, but I could still hear the Wuxi dialect.

I stood there a little hesitant, should I quickly hide in the shop in front of me, or go up to see what happened. "Xiaoqing. You two know how to wander around, so I can find them easily." A thin woman in the crowd rushed to them.

Xiaomei!I was so startled that I almost cried out.How can this be.Liu Qingyan ran to Shanghai to go shopping with Xiaomei's mother and daughter during the Chinese New Year.

The two women walked away, one holding the girl's hand.I have never seen the front of the woman who looks like Liu Qingyan.

"Fanfan, what are you doing? Who are you looking at? Someone you know?" Seeing that I didn't follow, Xiao Yao turned around and walked in front of me.She looked at me as she spoke.

I came back to my senses and smiled at her. "I don't know anyone, I'm confused. Don't you want to eat? Go in." I walked into the shop holding Yaoyao's hand.

If that was really Liu Qingyan, I wouldn't be surprised at all. She, who claims to be a good horse, will walk with her first love.

Time changes everything, just like your life and mine.

Xiao Yao and I still have a long road to love. No matter how much time passes, no matter what changes in life, I still have a firm belief in love.I believe that lovers will eventually get married, and I also believe that the long-term relationship depends on the management and maintenance of both parties.

Bless me.May our love last forever.

(End of the article)

The author has something to say:

Appendix: (The following is the chat history between the author and Mo Fan)

Arrival at zero: the novel ends tonight.After watching it, do you feel that it is not as exciting as you imagined. (sends an awkward emoticon)

Mo Fan: Hehe. (Smiling) It is much richer than what I told you, especially some inner activities and thoughts of the protagonist, which are far deeper and more comprehensive than my own.I never thought that such a small person like me could become the protagonist of a novel.

Arrival at midnight: You are welcome.I tried to keep the original appearance of your story, and it was your persistence that moved me.Of course, I will definitely add some of my own views on love and life.Originally, I wanted to use my imagination again, but I was worried that Yaoyao would be misunderstood. (laughing)

Mo Fan: Yaoyao said this is a novel.She didn't care, but she also said the other day that some scenes made her blush after reading it. (Embarrassed) She is worried about whether she can go to your house for dinner in the future, for fear that you will make fun of her.

Arriving at zero: Uh, this, this... Eldest sister, I also blushed when I wrote it. Believe it or not, my heels turned red.No way, sometimes we have to cater to the market.you know.Tell Yaoyao, how can such a serious person like me make fun of that kind of thing with her little sister.However, I cannot guarantee that my daughter-in-law will not joke with her. (laughing)

By the way, I have a question for you.I heard that Xia Jingyi went to the health department, did she really become the deputy director?

Mo Fan: I also heard from Yang Yang that she has indeed become the youngest female director of the Department of Health.Sometimes I think, in fact, life is not kind to her.

Arrive at zero: Yes, it is impossible for people to get everything they want.I think everyone has a different understanding of life, as long as you figure out what you want.Xia Jingyi's goals for these years are very clear, and she has achieved her wish.

Mo Fan: Sis, will you continue writing?

Arrival at zero o'clock: I won't write for the time being, I want to rest for a while.I bought a lot of books but didn't read them, and I didn't have time to play games with my wife. (cold sweat)

Mo Fan: You often update your post in the middle of the night, so you must have neglected your wife. (laughing)

Arrival at midnight: okay.However, this is your fault, you always tell me about your experience at night.I only typed after listening, so naturally it will be very late.

Mo Fan: Have you seen Su Hong and the others recently?I heard Hongye had a baby?Yaoyao and I are also thinking about this matter, we don't know whether we should give birth to one or adopt one.

Arrive at midnight: I met Mei Yinan at the last meeting, and said that Hongye gave birth to a boy.

Mo Fan: That's great, it's enviable.Oh, we can't chat anymore, Yaoyao called me.Someday treat you and your wife to dinner.

Arrive at zero: good night, sweet dreams.